ADHD Testing and Support, Educational Resources, Behavior Management, Executive Function Coaching, Dyslexia Assessment and Support, Parenting Strategies and Training, Child Therapy and Counseling, Motivation and Positive Psychology JaJa Lang ADHD Testing and Support, Educational Resources, Behavior Management, Executive Function Coaching, Dyslexia Assessment and Support, Parenting Strategies and Training, Child Therapy and Counseling, Motivation and Positive Psychology JaJa Lang

Gentle Parenting vs FAFO: Why Not Do Both?

In the ongoing debate between Gentle Parenting and FAFO (“F--- Around and Find Out”), why must it be one or the other? While gentle parenting emphasizes empathy and emotional regulation, FAFO leans on accountability and natural consequences. In this article, I explore how both philosophies can coexist—raising kids who are not only kind and self-aware but also resilient and responsible. Firm boundaries and compassion aren’t mutually exclusive—they’re complementary tools for preparing kids for real life.

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ADHD Testing and Support, Educational Resources, Behavior Management, Executive Function Coaching, Dyslexia Assessment and Support, Parenting Strategies and Training, Child Therapy and Counseling, Motivation and Positive Psychology JaJa Lang ADHD Testing and Support, Educational Resources, Behavior Management, Executive Function Coaching, Dyslexia Assessment and Support, Parenting Strategies and Training, Child Therapy and Counseling, Motivation and Positive Psychology JaJa Lang

Aren’t There Just Some Kids Who Can’t Be Motivated?

Are all kids able to be motivated? I honestly believe so. Motivation isn’t a one-size-fits-all solution — it’s a discovery process rooted in curiosity, compassion, and connection. When we ask kids about their dreams, understand their values, and help them confront their fears, we unlock what truly drives them.

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