Gentle Parenting vs FAFO: Why Not Do Both?
In the ongoing debate between Gentle Parenting and FAFO (“F--- Around and Find Out”), why must it be one or the other? While gentle parenting emphasizes empathy and emotional regulation, FAFO leans on accountability and natural consequences. In this article, I explore how both philosophies can coexist—raising kids who are not only kind and self-aware but also resilient and responsible. Firm boundaries and compassion aren’t mutually exclusive—they’re complementary tools for preparing kids for real life.